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What's the book about?
It’s about how to improve your interactions and relationships with anyone, whatever their personality type or background.
- Understand the four different personality styles and how they work.
- Find out how to flex your style to build rapport with others.
- Learn ways to improve your impact, influence, resilience and leadership skills.
This new and updated edition has extra content on leading others, interacting digitally and communicating inclusively.
In this practical and inspiring book, Catherine sets out an approach to communication that will improve your life. You’ll get on better with others and as a result feel happier too!
Download - How to Get On With Anyone: Workbook
What’s Your Style? Quiz
When we interact with others we usually have a positive intention but sometimes the way we come across can have a negative impact and then we don’t have the influence we want.
Take the quiz to find out which of four common styles you adopt most often, and how other people might see you.

Catherine Stothart
Author, Coach, Consultant
About the Author
My books result from my 30 years’ experience in leadership development with top multinational companies – including Airbus and Google. The most common problems people have relate to working with others - the insights, tools and tips in How to Get On with Anyone are the best way I have found to help them. And you can apply them in your life and relationships outside work too!
Find out why I wrote this new edition.
Watch this to find out the benefits and pitfalls of your Style.
How to Get On with Anyone: Second Edition distils the essence of inclusive communication into a masterfully simple guide. Essential reading for leaders seeking to influence with integrity.
Catherine's exploration into human behaviour is exemplary. A great read for everyone to discover their own behavioural 'style', with practical advice and tips. I particularly found the tips on inclusivity in meetings for extraverts vs introverts helpful, and will be using some of these going forward.
A must read for today’s leaders. Catherine provides tools and approaches for thriving in today's hybrid, diverse, and ever-changing world of relationships.
An essential guide for bridging misunderstandings across cultures.
Catherine turns complex concepts into simple statements, and accompanies her book with a wealth of practical activities that can easily be implemented, even by the busiest people.
How to Get On with Anyone opened my eyes – the explanations, data and examples helped me make sense of the way that I thought I was interacting with people—and the way that I actually was interacting. How helpful it has been to know this!
A great resource for anyone who needs to challenge their brain’s unconscious and automatic processing and become more intentional about what they do and why they do it. This book helps us focus on how our own behaviour truly impacts the behaviour of those around us, enabling self-reflection and greater accountability for our interactions with others.
A really practical guide to develop the self-awareness, knowledge and skills required to develop positive relationships and create effective teams.
This is a practical and insightful guide into our different communication styles and how to leverage them to get the best out of any situation. Catherine is someone I admire – she has deep expertise and is a credible expert on this cool topic.
In this practical and inspiring book, Catherine sets out an approach to communication that will improve your life. You’ll get on better with others and as a result feel happier too!
Catherine has provided a wonderfully accessible and readable text book for all. We all need to be more perceptive, informed and flexible regarding the mental make-up of the others around us. This is NOT just a book for business leaders; it is so much more. Bravo Catherine.
Catherine is author of 'How to get on with anyone'. I love her work, and her book is the one I most recommend to my clients, for helping them to understand their own preferred ways of interacting at work and how to spot how others like to interact too.
I can recommend Catherine’s book btw – How to Get On with Anyone is an insightful and informative read.
Understand yourself and others so you can be more effective – this book is essential
One of the best books on building relationships in all aspects of your life. Truly a practical, breakthrough book."
How to Get On with Anyone - A MUST-READ for any manager, leader or anyone working closely with others.
Your book is a fantastic reference and resource for personality coaching.
Learning about ourselves and how to relate to others is a continuous process. This practical and accessible manual, built around a proven model, will give you enormous help along that journey.
A really practical book with lots of ideas for real life situations at work and at home.
Really interactive and practical with plenty of self-assessment opportunity....you will definitely learn something valuable and immediately applicable.
A very readable book for our times on human behaviours and the impact these have on others.
The book is delightful - well-written and I love the link with Intention and Impact - very helpful!
Like having your own personal coach in a book - if you have ever wondered why other people don't do things the way you do, then this book is for you.
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