How To Get On With Anyone

will give you the life changing people skills you need to connect with others

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What’s the book about?

The book is about the four styles that people tend to display when they interact with others.

  • Find out your style and why you connect with some people but conflict with others.
  • Learn the skills and techniques to adapt your style to be a more confident and charismatic communicator.

This book is for anyone who wants to understand themselves, understand other people and build better relationships at work and at home.

It’s also a great resource for coaches to use with their clients or for leaders to coach their teams.

Learn how to understand others, use your charisma and communicate effectively to build better relationships.

Packed full of thought-provoking ideas and practical application in equal measure, How to Get On with Anyone is a real gem of a book
Anna Crollick

Chartered Occupational Psychologist

Now translated into:

Arabic, Russian, Ukrainian, Spanish and Chinese.

Catherine Stothart
Author, Coach, Consultant

About the Author

My books result from my 30 years’ experience in leadership development with top multinational companies – currently Airbus and Google. The most common problems people have relate to working with others – the insights, tools and tips in How to Get On with Anyone are the best way I have found to help them. And you can apply them in your life and relationships outside work too!

Find out why I wrote this book.

Watch this to find out the benefits and pitfalls of your Style.

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Catherine has provided a wonderfully accessible and readable text book for all. We all need to be more perceptive, informed and flexible regarding the mental make-up of the others around us. This is NOT just a book for business leaders; it is so much more. Bravo Catherine.
Alan Sowersby

Catherine is author of ‘How to get on with anyone’. I love her work, and her book is the one I most recommend to my clients, for helping them to understand their own preferred ways of interacting at work and how to spot how others like to interact too.

Chrissie Martindale


I can recommend Catherine’s book btw – How to Get On with Anyone is an insightful and informative read.

Dr Fiona Beddoes-Jones

Author, Authentic Leadership Development Specialist

Understand yourself and others so you can be more effective – this book is essential
Mark Stewart

General Manager and HR Director, Airbus

One of the best books on building relationships in all aspects of your life. Truly a practical, breakthrough book.”
Linda Berens

Director, The Berens Institute

How to Get On with Anyone – A MUST-READ for any manager, leader or anyone working closely with others.

Dr Arwen Wilcock

Institute of Leadership and Management

Your book is a fantastic reference and resource for personality coaching.

Terri Connellan

Writer, Life Coach and Personality Type Practitioner

Learning about ourselves and how to relate to others is a continuous process. This practical and accessible manual, built around a proven model, will give you enormous help along that journey.

Andrew Mayo

Professor of Human Capital Management, Middlesex University

A really practical book with lots of ideas for real life situations at work and at home.
Anne Whitaker

Former Partner, EY

Really interactive and practical with plenty of self-assessment opportunity….you will definitely learn something valuable and immediately applicable.

Steve Jones

Operations Director, Laing O’Rourke

A very readable book for our times on human behaviours and the impact these have on others.

Fiona Colquhoun

Director and Mediator, Centre for Effective Dispute Resolution

The book is delightful – well-written and I love the link with Intention and Impact – very helpful!

Susan Nash

Founder, Type Academy

Like having your own personal coach in a book – if you have ever wondered why other people don’t do things the way you do, then this book is for you.
Chrissie Martindale


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